Finding your Midwife
The initial contact is usually made by phone. The mother's health, the state of pregnancy, the
geographical distance of the house from the hospital, motives for giving birth at home and the
payment are discussed. If there is a match, an introductory meeting is scheduled.
At the introductory meeting:
● The midwife will introduce herself and her attitude to childbirth.
● She will discuss the advantages and limitations of home birth. You can talk to her about
your concerns, express your feelings and beliefs. You can ask questions to help you feel
if you are a good match.
● You can ask her about her professional experience, why she chose to be a home birth
midwife, what experience she has in cases of complications, emergencies, and any
urgent transfers to the hospital.
● Find out how she works, regarding appointments during pregnancy, preparation for
childbirth, postpartum visits, accompaniment to the hospital if necessary.
● Does she have backup in case she is in another birth?
● Does she have assistance – would she prefer that a doula also come? Or a second
midwife? Does she use any complementary medicine?
● What is the equipment that the midwife brings? Does the midwife have all the
necessary equipment and medicines required for birth?
● What are her requirements regarding pregnancy follow-up, ultrasound tests, her
approach to water birth, sharing with the partner and informing her that the birth is
starting?
● Once you have chosen your midwife, you will begin a process of in-depth acquaintance.
In each meeting you will get to know each other better, in conversations, in training, in
practice and in touch, according to your needs.
Basic questions when choosing a midwife
● Does the midwife have an Israeli midwifery license and has she trained to receive births
at home? This way you will know that the midwife has undergone a course of study and
practical training while being supervised and that she is experienced enough to attend
childbirth at home.
● Is the midwife a member of IMIAHI (Israel Homebirth Midwifery Association)? The
IMAHI organization trains midwives for professional work, paying attention to proper
and respectful conduct vis-à-vis the mother. Midwives are obliged to work in
accordance with the guidelines of the Ministry of Health.
● Does the midwife work with full transparency that allows her to cooperate with the
medical system? – This allows direct cooperation between the midwife and the
woman’s obstetrician in her community, reporting to the delivery room during a labor
transfer, accompanying the mother during the transfer to the delivery room. All these
lead to proper and efficient treatment of the mother and the newborn.
● Does the midwife explain the agreements between you, and have a corresponding
contract which outlines the manner of care during pregnancy, childbirth and
afterwards? Is there clarity regarding the payment, and about the presence of additional
professional help at birth?
● Does the midwife transfer to the hospital in case a problem arises? Does she allow you
to transfer to the hospital if you want?
● Do you feel that the midwife is listening to you? Is she interested in your needs and
concerns? Do you have open, enabling and easy communication with the midwife? Does
your family feel comfortable with the midwife too?
More about the choice of midwife
Many women, when choosing a midwife, turn to a midwife who have helped their friends. This
is a logical approach that gleans wisdom from experiences of others….
It is certainly true that the personality and attitude of the midwife has an important influence on
the birth experience. However, it is vital to find out if this is a qualified, experienced, and
recognized professional, who works honestly, within the law, using the official documents and
who is recognized by the accepted health system.
Home birth midwifery relies on the proven fact from research, that for a healthy woman with a
healthy pregnancy, giving birth at home with a professional midwife, conducted according to
professional guidelines, is safe for the mother and the newborn. In fact, research reinforces the
midwifery paradigm that the physiological birth process, which takes place without interruption,
and without medical interventions, has many advantages. At the same time, we know that there
are conditions that require increased supervision in the hospital and even medical interventions
to prevent complications and treat complications at birth. The midwife must be sufficiently
professional and experienced and able to diagnose signs that indicate a complication is brewing
and transfer the mother or newborn to the hospital. She must also have knowledge, skill and
experience and be equipped with the right equipment to handle emergency situations in the
mother's home.